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8 Tips for Emotional Safety in Childbirth and Postpartum

The Importance of Emotional Safety in Childbirth and Postpartum




Mother holding newborn baby after giving birth while nurse checks baby's vitals

Welcome to today's discussion on emotional safety during childbirth and the postpartum period. As explored in recent episodes of the Empower to Heal podcast, we've delved into the profound impact that feeling emotionally safe can have on new mothers. Beyond physical health, emotional safety plays a pivotal role in how women experience childbirth and navigate the challenging postpartum phase.


Reflecting on these conversations, it's clear that emotional safety isn't just about feeling physically secure—it's about feeling heard, respected, and supported in one of life's most transformative experiences. Whether it's understanding the lingering effects of past trauma, creating flexible birth plans, or building a robust support network, each aspect contributes significantly to a mother's overall well-being during this critical time.


In this blog post, we'll distill key insights from our podcast discussions into actionable tips for enhancing emotional safety during childbirth and the postpartum journey. By integrating these strategies, mothers can better prepare mentally and emotionally, fostering a healthier transition into parenthood.


8 Tips for Emotional Safety in Childbirth and Postpartum



Recognize that trauma extends beyond a difficult moment; it's an experience where you lacked the tools to cope and were left with a wound.

  • Trauma is not merely a hard moment, but rather an experience where an individual faces a situation they perceived as threatening and were unable to fight or flee, causing them to freeze or appease and withstand the experience.

  • People often describe a traumatic experience as out of their control which can intensify feelings of powerlessness and distress, particularly during childbirth and the postpartum period.

    • For example, experiences such as fertility struggles, child loss (during pregnancy or after), birth trauma, unexpected medical interventions, etc. can trigger trauma responses if they overwhelm one's coping mechanisms.

Acknowledge past trauma and its potential impact on your sense of safety.

  • For instance, feeling a loss of control during medical procedures or perceiving healthcare providers as dismissive of personal preferences can trigger memories of previous traumatic experiences.

  • This acknowledgment is essential in preparing emotionally for childbirth and postpartum, as unresolved trauma may heighten anxiety and impact overall well-being.

2. Prepare for Both Physical and Emotional Safety:

Emotional safety is as vital as physical safety; feeling heard and respected is crucial.

  • This includes having healthcare providers who honor birth preferences and communicate effectively, as well as support systems that validate emotional needs.

  • This approach fosters a supportive environment where individuals feel empowered and secure in their birthing experiences.

Know what you need to plan for in your postpartum season.

  • The postpartum season is the year following chidlbirth. It is filled with hormonal, neurological, social-emotional, and relational changes.

  • This FREE comprehensive Postpartum Checklist is a great tool to help you plan!



3. Create a Flexible Birth Vision:

Develop birth preferences that can adapt to the unpredictability of childbirth.

Creating a birth vision involves crafting preferences rather than rigid plans. This flexible approach allows parents to prepare for various scenarios, understanding that childbirth can unfold differently than expected.

  • For example, planning for pain management techniques like hypnobirthing while remaining open to medical interventions if needed illustrates this adaptable mindset.



4. Use Mindfulness Techniques:

Techniques like hypnobirthing can help manage pain and stay present during labor.

  • Hypnobirthing, is regarded as a valuable mindfulness technique for managing labor pain and promoting relaxation. By focusing on breathwork, visualization, and affirmations, individuals can cultivate a calm and focused mindset conducive to natural childbirth. This practice supports emotional well-being by reducing anxiety and enhancing feelings of control during the birthing process.



5. Build a Support System:

Consider hiring a doula or appointing trusted family members to advocate for you.

  • Hiring a doula provides continuous emotional and physical support, advocating for the parent's wishes and ensuring their voice is heard in medical settings.

  • Additionally, involving trusted family members who understand one's preferences and can provide comfort strengthens the support system, fostering a sense of security and reassurance.

Clearly communicate your needs and preferences to your support team.

  • Effective communication involves clearly articulating birth preferences and expectations to your support team. This includes discussing comfort measures, pain management strategies, and preferences for medical interventions.

  • By establishing open communication channels, individuals can feel confident that their support team understands and respects their decisions, enhancing emotional safety and well-being.



6. Plan for Postpartum Support:

Organize resources and support systems in advance for the postpartum period.

  • Planning for postpartum involves organizing resources such as lactation consultants, physical therapists, mental health therapists, and other healthcare professionals in advance.

    • Join a postpartum prep course to support you in identifying what you need to plan for postpartum and supports you in building that plan.

  • This proactive approach ensures timely access to support services if needed, addressing potential postpartum challenges and promoting recovery and emotional well-being.

Have a list of professionals ready for potential postpartum needs (e.g., lactation consultants, physical therapists).

  • This includes identifying lactation consultants for breastfeeding support, physical therapists for recovery exercises, and mental health professionals for emotional well-being.

  • This preparation enhances readiness for the postpartum period, reducing stress and promoting a smoother transition to parenthood.

  • There are powerful websites that cost parents $0 to begin crowdfunding your postpartum support team. Check out my blog post and podcast with Be Her Village to learn more!



7. Know Your Triggers and Plan Accordingly:

Identify personal triggers and develop strategies to manage them during childbirth and postpartum.

  • Understanding personal triggers involves recognizing situations or stimuli that may evoke stress or anxiety during childbirth and postpartum.

  • This self-awareness enables individuals to develop coping strategies, such as relaxation techniques or visualizations, to manage triggers effectively.

  • By planning ahead, individuals can mitigate potential emotional distress and maintain a sense of control and safety throughout their birthing journey.

    • Check out this FREE motherhood journal that I created to support you in increasing your awareness around what may be triggering you and what habits may support you in feeling your best.



8. Stay Flexible and Open to Change:

Accept the unpredictability of childbirth and be open to adjustments to maintain a sense of control and safety.

  • Birth outcomes can differ from expectations.

  • By embracing uncertainty and remaining adaptable to changes in birth plans or medical needs, individuals can navigate unforeseen circumstances with resilience.

  • This mindset promotes emotional safety by focusing on what can be controlled while accepting factors beyond one's influence.



I hope these insights into emotional safety during childbirth and postpartum have been valuable for you.


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